TRY THIS!

In the case of a fire outbreak, what comes in handy is a fire extinguisher. This implies that fire can't be used to stop fire. 

As you go out today, the bus conductor might yell at you, your boss might scream at you;trying to bring you down. Your friends/younger ones might even humiliate you but try as much as possible to reply in a soft tone. Do not seek to reply "fire for fire". Be calm; do not seek to be right always. There's really no need trying to defend yourself and if at all, make sure its the God in you you're trying to defend not self. Bear in mind that there's also no need to compete with anyone i.e. Your goal shouldn't be trying to be better than others but rather to do better than whom you were yesterday. Remain Blessed!!!