When in a relationship with someone, and he/she makes plans or decisions without letting you in on it, you get upset and feel like an outsider because it is a relationship and it entails a lot of relating together.
This is how it is when we wake up one blessed morning and make a decision without first running it by God and hearing what he has to say about it. The more we make these decisions without asking for God's guidance, the more distant our relationship with Him becomes, and before long, we realize that we're practically left alone to make decisions

However, if we readily make ourselves available to God, He will guide and reveal to us His plans for our lives. He will also show us things to come if we draw nearer and let Him in. Remain Blessed!